Our Sex Problems Are Our Teachers

Whether you’re scared your partner won’t accept your fantasies, worried about how your body looks, feel deep shame from a religious upbringing, or any million other things that could be a “problem” in your sex life – remember these words… “Nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know…nothing ever […]

We Don’t Ask For Our Desires…

… so we may as well get friendly with them. Even if they’re weird, humiliating, or violent (so long as nobody REALLY gets hurt). Here’s what self-defined feminist, Emily, has to say about her fantasies (many of which overlap my own interests): I consider myself to err on the side of sexual submission. I have […]